Thomas Merton once said, “Before the Lord wills me to do anything, He first of all wills me to ‘be. ‘What I do must depend on who I am.” God is more interested in our character than our performance, and he longs for us to trust Him to run our lives as we obey versus operating in our own strength. Plan Be is designed to give Christ-followers guidelines for prioritizing time with God and thereby becoming intimate with Him and growing spiritually, to be more like Christ and through a life of true freedom, peace, and joy, become a better servant in His Kingdom.
Summary:
BREATHE
LIVING life to the fullest!
“The Spirit of God has made me, and the breath of the Almighty gives me life.” ~ Job 33:4, NKJV
Breath is worship.
Breath is worship. When we attend to our breath, we acknowledge the Sovereign God who created breath and praise Him for giving us the breath of life. He alone controls it. He alone gets to decide our first breath, and our last. As we deliberately set out each morning to fellowship with God, we start by attending to our breath. Breathing exercises not only awaken us physiologically, but spiritually as well. As we begin our quiet time with God, we start by practicing the Big 3:
Big 3
The Big Three is an exercise that will wake us up and get our motors running. The lungs will wake up, the heart will wake up, the blood will oxygenate, and the mind will become more alert. Whenever I perform this exercise, I visualize feeding my brain with the oxygen I’m bringing into my body. The more we practice, the better we’ll become at deepening the inhale and exhale. The deeper we breathe, the more relaxed we’ll become. Basically, we’re taking deep, more forceful breaths in and then exhaling through or nose; then we do the same through our mouth.
Smooth 7
The “Smooth Seven” breathing practice is calmer and more rhythmic than the Big Three. It’s called “Smooth Seven” because we’ll take longer and less forceful breaths in through our nose for a count of seven seconds, then exhale through our mouth for another count of seven seconds.
Prairs
Once we become familiar with the Big 3 and Smooth 7’s, we can exchange simple counting with scripture and/or prayers. The word “Prair” is simply a combination of Prayer + Air – the method for incorporating God’s word and prayer into the cadence of our breathing exercises.
An example of a Prair is to pray “Lord, Your will, not mine, be done” at every inhale and exhale. A Prair may also contain a positive thought on inhale, then a negative thought at exhale. Example, breathe in the words hope and peace and breathe out the words worry and stress.
Other examples for Prairs:
– “Lord Your Mercies are new every morning. Great is Your faithfulness.” – Lamentations 3:22-23_. Note: Yes, include the reading of the Scripture book, chapter, and verses in your Prair!
– “Lord, You love me with an everlasting love; therefore, You have continued Your faithfulness to me.” – Jeremiah 31:3
– “If God so loved us, we also ought to love on another.” – 1 John 4:11
– “There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” – Romans 8:1
Not only is it an act of worship to think of God when we do our breathing exercises, but to recite scripture during it will both honor Him, increase our time in His word and lead to memorization – a trifecta of goodness!
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BE STILL
LETTING GO of worries and LISTENING to God!
“Be still and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth!” ~ Psalm 46:10, NKJV
In Plan Be
In Plan Be, we practice stillness before God so we might fellowship with Him, honor Him, and cultivate a desire to want what He wants. God longs to have a deep personal relationship with us.
The Hebrew word for “be still” is raphah, which means to be quiet and to let go.
As we spend quality time with Him, putting Him first in our day, we will grow in our intimacy together. Quietness before Him stills the soul. Listening fills our hearts and minds with Him. He longs to guide us, instruct us, and teach us in the way we should go, for He is the Way, the Truth, and the Life. As we calm our hearts before Him, giving full attention to Him, He will be honored, and God takes pleasure in those who honor Him. He will fill our hearts with His love:
“The Lord is good to those who wait for him, to the soul who seeks him. It is good that one should wait quietly for the salvation of the Lord.” (Lamentations 3:25–26, ESV)
Sacred Words
During Be Still, think of a word that will help to bring you back to your focus on God, should you get distracted; a word to re-center you in your quiet time with Him. We’ll call this a “Sacred Word”.
Examples of sacred words:
- Peace
- Trust
- Love
- Faith
- Hope
- Promise
- Healing
- Compassion
- Kindness
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BELOVED
LOVING God, LOVING Others.
“For I am certain that nothing can separate us from His love: neither death nor life, neither angels nor other heavenly rulers or powers, neither the present nor the future, neither the world above nor the world below—there is nothing in all creation that will ever be able to separate us from the love of God which is ours through Christ Jesus our Lord.” ~ Romans 8:38–39, GNBDC
Summary
Intimacy, relationship, understanding, knowledge, positivity, enlightenment, spiritual discernment, and joy. All these virtues supplied by God culminate in the greatest of all things: love. By definition, God is love. It’s His identity, His DNA. And it’s the DNA of everyone who has professed faith in Him as well. The greatest goal and the constant lesson in life is this: love. Love is the strongest Be-Attitude. We can love because He first loved us. Love courses through the other Be-Attitudes. It’s the thread that holds the whole tapestry together. As we cultivate intimacy with Him, surrender and rest in Him, expose our hearts to Him, and approach our day with positive eyes wide open to see Him at work in and around us, we cannot help but shine His light on others . . . and His light is love. Love becomes the natural expression of all who belong to Him.
Rest in His Love
Amazingly, God calls us beloved. Amazing, because due to our sin we don’t deserve it, but He loves us anyway. He loves us unconditionally and His love is not something that we have to earn: it’s a gift. Romans 5:8 (NKJV) declares that “God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” Jesus paid the ultimate sacrifice and gave up His life to save us while humanity was in its worst state. God did not wait for us to get our act together before the sacrifice was made. Yet to this day, many are still trying to do that very thing—to earn their way into right standing with Him, taking it upon themselves to shed their sins and remove their own guilt. Instead, let’s accept the fact that, through Christ, we’re now in good standing with God and rather than striving for acceptance, simply rest in His love.
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BEAM
LIGHT – Receiving from God, Shining out to Others.
“Arise! Shine! Your light has come; the Lord’s glory has shone upon you. Though darkness covers the earth and gloom the nations, the Lord will shine upon you; God’s glory will appear over you. Nations will come to your light and kings to your dawning radiance.” ~ Isaiah 60:1–3, CEB
Summary
When I was young and needed to be awakened every weekday morning for school, my mom would come into the bedroom that my two brothers and I shared, flick the light switch on, and sing, “Rise and Shine!” Back then, my adolescent self-dreaded hearing that, for it meant another day of classes. But now, whenever I hear the words of Isaiah 60—“Arise! Shine!”—I remember Mom’s attempt to infuse positive words of hope into our young minds. It was just one of the many ways in which she worked to instill optimism in us, and I look back now with great appreciation for that—not the waking up part, but the spirit in which my mom helped us begin our day.
Isaiah had the same intent—speaking positive words to dissipate the gloom because a new hope was coming, a light for the nations that would carry with Him God’s glory to shine upon us and remove the darkness.
Isaiah had spoken words like this to the people already. In chapter 9, he pronounced, “The people who walked in darkness have seen a great light; those who dwelt in the land of the shadow of death, upon them a light has shined” (Isaiah 9:2, NKJV); and a few verses later he connects this statement with one of our most familiar Christmas passages, saying, “For unto us a Child is born, Unto us a Son is given; and the government will be upon His shoulders. And His name will be called Wonderful, Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace” (Isaiah 9:6, NKJV). That Son, that Prince of Peace and Great Light, is Jesus Christ.
Through the presence of Christ, we are exposed to and infused with positive energy. We radiate the beautiful rays of His essence, His glory upon us. We are made light through His spirit. In the light, everything is exposed. God desires that we live transparently, authentically, and sincerely. Darkness is sin; in it lie secrets, shame, and separation. Living in His light is freedom, belonging, purity, and righteousness. Thankfulness, appreciation, gratitude, and kindness are all rays within His light, exposing us to an eternal realm that transcends the negative forces of this world. He is the Light of the world. He offers us His light, that we might become light and be light for others. Goodness, kindness, and mercy are light, emanating from their source—Jesus Christ.
In the Light
In the light of Christ, He works to expose the hidden things in our heart. Out of His goodness, Christ illuminates the things we’d rather choose to cram into dark corners. These are secret sins, the thoughts and acts we’ve committed but are ashamed of; acts and thoughts we deem unforgiveable. But Christ readily forgives, and He longs to expose these sins not to condemn us, but to redeem us, to restore us. Romans 8:1 (ESV) says, “There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.”
Jesus knows too, how much we’ve been wronged. He sees the hurts we’ve experienced through neglect, abuse, indifference, and pure, out-right evil. And He longs to heals us from these wounds. Scripture says that it’s “…by His stripes we are healed…” (Isaiah 53:5 NKJV). He bore our pain at the cross. He longs to heal us, eternally-speaking.
Once we come to Him and repent and release our pain to Him, Jesus works to renew our hearts. So, in the Beam Be-Attitude, we take time to attend to these as His light shines in our hearts. Receive His light, then take time to:
- Repent
- Release
- Renew
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BELIEVE
LEARNING to live by faith through His Word
“Therefore, having been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom also we have access by faith into this grace in which we stand, and rejoice in the hope of the glory of God.” ~ Romans 5:1–2, NKJV
Summary
But these are written that you may believe that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God, and that believing you may have life in His name.
– John 20:31
In John 20:31 we see the cadence:
- We read His Written Word.
- We believe. Our faith grows.
- We experience the fullness of life.
Of course, we do not live out a formula, but John 20:31 is a profound statement regarding what happens when we incorporate God’s living Word into our lives. It should flow naturally from our connection with Him, open to receiving His holy, inerrant Word, which is life itself. And once we’ve received His Word, we’re drawn closer and will connect with Him on a deeper level. Knowing His Word will provide us with faith, wisdom, truth, and power. It affirms us and gives us the strength to live in victory, from a position of hope and faith and love. His Word confirms who He is, giving us hope that does not disappoint.
Seeing the Bible as God’s journal, His love story to us, we’re filled with His insight, revelation, and guidance; and when we carry His Word in our hearts, we carry His wisdom and strength, which enables us to face any circumstance and overcome all adversity. In the Believe Be-Attitude, we reinforce our faith and fortify our belief in all that He says He is and does through His holy Word. We focus on Scripture—the very words of God—to instruct us on how to live well in an otherwise broken world.
We need scripture like we need air (the BREATHE Be-Attitude!). God’s Word is life. He is called the Word (John 1:1 NKJV). We cannot acknowledge our need for Him without acknowledging our need for the Word. Let’s live out the truth that “the word of God is living and powerful” (Hebrews 12:1a) and whatever we read in scripture, by the power of the Holy Spirit, “never returns void, but accomplishes what He pleases for it to do and prospers in the thing for which He sends it,” (Isaiah 55:11 NJJV, paraphrased).
Read His word, meditate on it, and know that the power of God works through every verse.
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BE JOYFUL
LAUGHING and LIGHT-HEARTEDNESS – cultivating praise, thanks, and prayer
“Be joyful always, pray at all times, be thankful in all circumstances. This is what God wants from you in your life in union with Christ Jesus.” ~ 1 Thessalonians 5:6–18, GNBDC
Summary
When we continually see God at work, in us and around us, and come to know experientially the freedom He offers through Christ, then the door is opened for a life of joy and celebration. We can live as free-spirited, contented people not through some artificial or externally driven means, but by the irrevocable promise of His care and love. He will never leave or forsake us, and He will always work to the good for those of us who love Him. His consistency, His continual presence, His honesty, and unending love should be the catalysts for a happy life. We are free to laugh, sing, think positively, and not be controlled by circumstances:
“But as for me, I will sing about your power. Each morning I will sing with joy about your unfailing love. For you have been my refuge, a place of safety when I am in distress.” (Psalm 59:16, NLT)
We can opt for joy in every circumstance because He has ensured us that we will experience the best outcome we could ever ask for—eternity with Him. Because of His promise of everlasting life with Him, we live with hope, and hope fills us with joy. We can experience this even in times of distress. I understand how difficult this can be in the day-to-day grind, but that doesn’t eliminate the fact that we can still find joy. We always have the power to create joyful moments, for ourselves and others. More specifically, we can implement those things which we know bring joy.
In the Be-Attitude of Be Joyful
In the Be-Attitude of Be Joyful, we practice gratitude daily, writing down at least three things we’re thankful for.
What three things are you thankful for?
Joy comes by way of a thankful heart and a thankful heart is always in prayer. Philippians 4:4-7 provides the connection. As we pray, we are called to give thanks, because God provides us with so much blessing. He always answers prayer, and for that alone we should be thankful – even when the answer isn’t what we would choose or expect, we can still thank God because, ultimately, He will work everything to the good.
“Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”
~ Philippians 4:4–7
“And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.” ~ Romans 8:28 (ESV)
What three prayer requests do you have?
Note, too, the element of peace in Philippians 4:4-7; wherein we learn a beautiful formula to live by:
Prayer + Praise = Peace
As we talk to God continually (pray) and thank Him for His many blessings (praise) we will, undoubtedly, experience peace. Not our peace, rather, His peace; the kind of peace that, as the Apostle Paul states in the next verse of Philippians 4 (7), “transcends all understanding.” This transcendence is described in the Pulpit Commentary as a “calm blessedness transcends the reach of human thought; it can be known only by the inner experience of the believer.” [https://biblehub.com/philippians/4-7.htm#commentary]
For a more in-depth look at this Be-Attitude and the behaviors that lead to a greater intimacy with Jesus, you can order Plan Be book by clicking here.
BEHOLD
LOOKING for divine moments, God at work
“Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears My voice and opens the door, I will come into him and dine with him, and he with Me.”
~ Revelation 3:20, NKJV
Summary
The word “behold” is a fascinating word that appears 1,381 times in the King James Bible, 234 times in the New Testament, and four times more often than the word “amen.”[1] On its surface, the Greek word for “behold,” idou (G2400, pronounced ee-do), is a verb that means “to see.” Per Thayer’s Greek Lexicon,[2] it is used in “bidding the reader or hearer to attend to what is said: ‘Behold! See! Lo!’” Thayer’s continues to describe the use of the word “behold” as “the simple exclamation of one pointing out something . . . and calling attention.”
The word behold is not used in modern speech—when was the last time you heard someone say, “Behold!”? There simply isn’t a suitable English word to convey its full meaning and, more importantly, its emphasis. The word itself is a verb—it requires action on the hearer’s or reader’s part! —and whenever used in a sentence, the speaker or author is making a very strong point to the listener or reader to pay very close attention to what they’re about to share. Perhaps today we substitute behold for “Look!” but Behold is much more than that.
“Behold” is also used at the close of a narrative when something new is introduced. It’s used when a specific thing is unexpected yet sure; and when a thing is specified which seems impossible and yet occurs.
Reading God’s Word
It struck me when reading God’s word that since there were so many “behold” moments, that perhaps we were meant to continue beholding, as if God is constantly reinforcing the concept through all the statements and stories in His word. I mean, God hasn’t stopped loving, creating, and working after the last jot was completed in scripture. In fact, He may be sending us behold moments all the time, and the adventure He calls us to in life is to see Him in all aspects of our life. It seems He dares us to; whether it be in a sunrise, a baby’s smile, the fellowship of friends.
So, let’s behold Him, by looking for Him at work throughout our day.
The concept of this last Be-Attitude, Behold, is to prepare yourself to walk with God continually, to anticipate divine appointments, or divine “noticing,” since nothing is random, and life is more than mere coincidence. We approach everything with eyes wide open (spiritually from the heart and physically with our eyes), we regain that sense of wonder that we somehow lost after childhood when everyone told us to get serious and to check into reality and grow up. We need to come back to the spirit of appreciation for the small things, which really aren’t small after all.
Our call to action with this Be-Attitude is to simply LOOK. Look with intention and to seek Him in all circumstances, knowing that we will find Him when we seek Him with all our heart (Jeremiah 29:13, paraphrased).
Examples of Beholding
Here’s a few examples of my beholding God:
- I’ll be given the same scripture verse from different sources in short succession (i.e., same day)
- The fact my cat seeks me out for a lap sit whenever I’m feeling anxious (how does that happen?!)
- Running into people you’ve recently prayed for or have been thinking about; or a text or phone call from them
- A revelation the Holy Spirit has given on a particular scripture. Example: I recently read John 7:37-38 NKJV (for the millionth time, but this time, a light shined in my spirit) – “If anyone thirsts, let him come to Me and drink. He who believes in Me, as the scripture has said, out of his heart will flow rivers of living water.’’ The revelation…and it is simple but was profound to me…was that when we come to Jesus in our thirst, He doesn’t merely give us a drink, He gives us so much that out of our receiving hearts, a river will flow. Not a drop or a trickle, but rivers. And the water will flow out. Out where? From our hearts to others. He satisfies not only my thirst but supplies enough to me that out of my heart, others will receive this living water, Jesus is so good!
- Gazing up at the stars, at the three lined up within Orion’s belt’s – Alnitak, Alnilam, and Mintaka – and learning that they are called the celestial bridge, because they link the Northern and Southern hemispheres; then pondering how, for centuries, they were used – far away from my backyard – to navigate the seas. Deriving that sense of awe and wonder and the beauty, purpose and consistency of what God has placed before us in the universe, and how He continues to manage all that is in our solar system.
- The beauty of prayer when two or more are joined together, and knowing that – somehow, but assuredly, God hears us and starts to respond to our prayers.
I could go on, but the key to beholding is in our desire and deliberate action to see God at work. There is no shortage of opportunities. He reaches out to us continually, showing us who He is, how He remains involved and caring, and how He invites us to live in an adventure with Him every day.
For a more in-depth look at this Be-Attitude and the behaviors that lead to a greater intimacy with Jesus, you can order Plan Be book by clicking here.